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Posted 1/10/2007 6:17 PM (GMT -7)
Hi guys well I had a miscarriage and it happened today. Could anything else go wrong. I was so happy. I never want to try again because I'm so scared. Thank u 2 all that was happy for me but now I guess I'm worthless. Can't even hold on to my baby. I'm so tired. I don't feel good and I know that these symptoms won't go away but I was hoping having this 1st child would make me feel so differently about life and living.
Posted 1/10/2007 7:09 PM (GMT -7)
sad  So Sorry to hear of your loss, what can we do to help support you? 
Posted 1/10/2007 7:31 PM (GMT -7)
I'm sorry about your miscarriage. Please let us know what we can do to help you get through this. We're here if you just want to talk.
Posted 1/10/2007 8:32 PM (GMT -7)
Neuro, I am so very sorry.  I know how hard that is as I have had two of them.  Please take care of yourself and know that this was not your fault just, sometimes these things happen and it most likely would of happened even if you were healthy.  It doesnt make it any easier for you I know but just dont be so hard on yourself.  You know we are always here for you anytime.
Posted 1/10/2007 8:50 PM (GMT -7)
I am so sorry.  Be good to yourself and rest.  Do hope you have someone to comfort you. 
Posted 1/11/2007 10:06 AM (GMT -7)
hi guys....you are the best. Just doing what your doing is enough. Thanks for all of the support. Els, sorry to hear you had two. Were you ever able to go on and have any kids?? Im scared that once i have a miscarriage i will never be able to have kids. Is this true???

Posted 1/11/2007 10:25 AM (GMT -7)

Hello Neuro,

I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. Being a man I could never completely understand your inner feelings, but I can say my wife lost our first and we now have 2 beautiful little girls, the best thing that ever happened to us. Just get yourself some rest, take a break and don't be so down on yourself. This happened to you, not because of you.

Give yourself a break!

Steve   

Posted 1/11/2007 11:46 AM (GMT -7)
Thank you Steve. That is too sweet. And Im so happy to hear that you went on to have 2 girls. That is wonderful. Those words mean so much to me!





Thank you for all of your support....as always.
Posted 1/11/2007 12:20 PM (GMT -7)
Hi neuro, I just wanted to say I'm sorry for your loss, and to tell you that I have had two miscarriages, and FOUR healthy children!! So it is very possible to carry children after a miscarriage.
Posted 1/11/2007 7:16 PM (GMT -7)
:-)  Hi Nuerogirl, lots of neat response  looks like i missed the chat  did not get home til about 10 mins. ago.  did it go okay or did noone show up? 
Posted 1/13/2007 7:03 AM (GMT -7)
Hey, ya I actually couldn't make it either. I'm am def going to make it next week tho.
Posted 1/15/2007 6:03 PM (GMT -7)
:-)  yes i plan to be there also!!!  lets both put our the bulletin the day before and even the day of  if possible.  as usual i will be out running a round, but i am sure to be home by 4.  see you there.
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