I am sorry you are not having any luck with the physicians. As I have not had the surgery all I can offer you is my support.
Please do feel comfortable joining the Anxiety and Panic forum to post about your anxiety if you would like to. We have great members that can help you deal with your anxiety.
Here is the link for the A & P Forum:
Moderator: Osteoarthritis, GERD/Heartburn
Anxiety/Panic, & Depression
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