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Date Joined Oct 2013
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   Posted 10/13/2013 12:17 PM (GMT -6)   
My mom who is 85 was placed on remeron in April my dad was very ill and taken out of house and placed in assisted living,has since passed in July. My sister had her at her home for a week in September,she had pneumonia. Thought she was sleeping fine,and took her off the remeron. She was for a short time taking celexa in am,was incontinent for awhile taking off that as well.this last month she has not been eating well,lost weight,quiet,not talking much Friday she called 12 times you have to come have to help me calling everybody.saw her brother who has not seen her in 5 months thought she looked awful. Anyway i put her back on the remeron Friday night. Is that okay.?

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   Posted 10/13/2013 1:32 PM (GMT -6)   
Good Afternoon and welcome to HealingWell. Please accept my sympathy at the death of your Father, my prayers go out to your family.
Regarding your Mother, I would not restart the Remeron without making a Drs. appointment and assuring that your Mother gets a medical screening exam as she may have other issues going on.  She has experienced one of the major stresses in a person's life; the loss of her spouse.
What you describe to me feels a bit like she may have Alzheimer's, but I am not a Dr. so that is just a thought. Depression comes to mind also and would certainly fit her symptoms.
Am I right in gathering that she is living alone; if so perhaps it is time to look at assisted living or other arrangements for her?
You have posted in the GERD/Heartburn forum.  Perhaps if you post in the Alzheimer's forum you would learn more about that disorder and have a better idea of how to proceed. I will post the link for you so just click on it to find the Alzheimer's forum.
My email is open if you want to reach me by email with any questions. If you click on my nameon the left, my profile will open for you and my emails is posted there.  I am here to support you and I can tell you are a dedicated and caring son.  Your Mother is fortunate to have you as I am sure you have been to be her son.
Gentle Hugs,
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Date Joined May 2012
Total Posts : 541
   Posted 10/16/2013 3:14 PM (GMT -6)   
I've been on remeron before. It seems to help out my stomach whenever it feels bad. Also, it makes me a eat like a dinosaur.

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Date Joined Oct 2013
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   Posted 10/16/2013 9:54 PM (GMT -6)   
Thank you for the reply, I am actually the youngest daughter of five and have been caring for them for the past several years. I think it's a combination of dementia and depression.
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