There is more that one surgeon out there, so do some research and see if you can find the best in your area. Depending on the size of the city you're in/near, you'll want one with lots of experience--300+ in a small city, and 1000+ in a large city.
As Bill said, if your GI doc referred you, you need the surgery, so don't give up. Sorry the surgeon was so rude to you. I suggest you report the behavior to your GI doctor, as he should know how his patient was treated.
Good luck in your search!
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