I'm sorryou are feeling this way. Im sure your husband wants to be there for you and he on't feel you are complaining. Illness can make people feel anxious, depressed and worried. Its normal to wor, especially about
an upcoming procedure. Try not to worry about
going off to sleep. Anaesthetics are so safe nowadays.
Try not to worry about
having cancer - people who feel ill usually have some kind of health anxiety and so often think they have cancer. If you did, they would find it. Im sure you have nothing to worry about
. Pain from the gallbladder can be horrible and intense.
If this carries on and you feel your mind is just going ontp overdrive, talk to your doctor about
couselling. In the UK, at our hospital where I work, we have health psychologists who deal with this sort of thing.
Take care and keep in touch
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