Just wanted to say sorry that you're feeling so bad.
There is an association between GERD and Asthma. I would suggest maybe talking to an asthma specialist. I always sleep with 2-3 pillows behind me to keep the reflux down during the night, might help you if you've not tried it. These are about
the only suggestions I'd make to you.
No one said life was going to be easy, but I sure could do without all these nightmares and if it makes sense it's probably wrong.
Hope you feel better soon and keep us posted!