Hi and welcome to Healingwell! The CU topic hasn't been closed, it's under the same title but with part 2 was added. When our pages get too long, we close it and
open a new post. That way when we have people searching for something specific, they can find their answers faster.
I don't have much advice to offer you, but I'm sure someone will come along soon. I just wanted to welcome you and let you know that the topic wasn't closed