He sounds quite insensitive to me and who cares of you offend him??? Isn't he doing the same to you? You need to speak your mind at times and I personally think this might be one of them. If it's YOUR life at jeopardy, don't be afraid to stand up for yourself. Sorry if I came off kind of brash but I have little to no patience for insensitive individuals. Maybe after you speak your mind he will realize that he is hurting your feelings by acting the way he is. Sometimes these people just don't understand until you point it out.
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