My dad acted like he was totally in charge. He acted confident. He WAS scared. When we sat down and chatted, just the two of us, I would ask him and we would talk about
it. He was SO happy to be able to address his confusion and fear. I was absolutely stunned. I had no idea that he felt the way he did.
People put on a good show to try and convince others they are ok.
I'm glad you spend time with your Grandmother, Sassy. You'll never regret the time you take and the patience you use when you are with her. We will all be old one day and I always try to treat elderly loved ones as I will want to be treated.
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