Sorry to hear about your Mom and your problems also.
When you get sucked into the medical system in this country (U.S.) with all the drugs, I'm sorry to say that you are on a downward spiral of health.
When you understand what really creates health you will understand why I am saying what I'm saying. I've done tons of research over 20 years on this subject, so I'm not just talking off the top of my head.
My Mother just recently got sucked into the system and this is what happend.
Mom had an irregular heartbeat so mostly to see what was going on, we took her to the ER. She was then admitted and started on high doses of Amiodarone to try to correct the arrhythmia. They also started her on loveanox, coumadin (rat poision), crestor, aspirin. All these drugs when she had not even been on any up to this point in her life (age 85). Also, without even talking about why these were being administered. (Her cholestrol reading a few months ago was very good??)
Bottom line, she started internal bleeding a week later and almost didn't make it. In my opinon, you will die quicker once you start the drugs that only treat the symtom and never get the root cause of the disease or problem.
To be healthy you must find those things that work with your body for healing. Doctors do not get any training in this area, only in the area of treating symptoms via drugs.
Do your due diligence and do not place the care of your health in anyones hands but your own. Emergency medicine has it's place, but for builiding good health, don't expect your doctor to be able to help you....