Try contacting your local Alzheimer's Association. They may have some good resources for you. The things he is doing are so common with this dd. I'm so sorry he is having such a hard time. This disease really robs them of their dignity. When dad did anything that was totally out of line, I would just sharply say "HEY!" and it seemed to distract him enough to get him on a new thought. I made sure that I didn't disrespect him . . . but he was aware that I had boundaries.
I hope your Alz Assoc is able to give you some good guidance. You can also post specici questions here.
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