Hi Moon . . .
Welcome to the forum. I see Red already gave you some really insightful info. I'm not sure how far gone your mom is. She may also be depressed. Does she enjoy doing anything when you are doing it together?
One good activity for the brain and the body is walking. If she'll take a walk with you to a nearby friend or store . . . or around the block, it can improve mood, stamina, and general health, as well as getting oxygen to the brain to slow progression of this dd.
If you discuss this with her doc and the doc determines that there is depression involved, there are meds that can really help with that too.
Glad you found us.
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