That is so sweet that you want to help this couple! I applaud you for that :) Is there anyway for your friend, the grand daughter, to ask about to see if the family is willing to help out? I mean you can always go over there and offer help as much as you can but ultimately it is up to the family to do something about it. Even though you grew up down the street from them, you are still an "outsider" and unfortunately, as much as your heart is in the right place, this is a family matter.
HOWEVER, if you think that this Grand-dad is being neglected or abused than you should step in and contact the proper authorities.
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