There may not be a way around upsetting him and your husband needs to tell the doctor what has been happening. Perhaps the doctor can figure out the cause of these memory lapses and mood changes - whether it is indeed Alzheimer's or another form of dementia. He than can be placed on medications to slow the progression and/or mood stabilizers.
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