New Topic Post Reply Printable Version
[ << Previous Thread | Next Thread >> ]

New Member

Date Joined Aug 2013
Total Posts : 1
   Posted 8/13/2013 10:22 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi everybody. I have just joined. I've been a member to and really enjoyed it there, but, today I was surfing the net and came across this forum. I am a full time caregiver to my 72 year old mother in my home who was diagnosed in 2009. She is later stage 6, early seven. I just wanted to say hi, before I start learning how to navigate this forum.

Veteran Member

Date Joined Feb 2005
Total Posts : 6448
   Posted 8/13/2013 2:12 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi Shelley and welcome to the forum. My Mother has dementia, and lives in a memory care facility. It's awesome that you are taking care of your Mom full time. Unfortunately, since I'm the breadwinner in the family, I havent had that opportunity but she is in good hands and closer to my other siblings (we moved her after my Dad passed.) My sisters and brother visit her everyday, so they have quite a presence the the home. Again, welcome!

Gizzy'n me
Veteran Member

Date Joined Jun 2013
Total Posts : 1870
   Posted 8/14/2013 10:31 AM (GMT -6)   
Hello Shellasim ... and welcome:
   I too have a Mother in a Home for Dementia, and it's been an experience. Early last year, the local Senior Center had a weekly get together for caregivers (mostly of parents) that was my first exposure to some degree of caregiving. It had a facilitator that was barely 25 years old and a graduate of the local State University ... but she had an amazing degree of perception. 
   Unfortunately, the program stopped for some unknown reason. During that timeframe, my Mother was at home with a 24/7 live-in care-giver who was good, and I learned a little from her. Then last September, Mom's doctor said he wanted her to be in a facility that had a registered nurse - so a new chapter began.
   My Mother is 95 years old, is incontinent and is mostly confined to a wheelchair. But .... until she was 93, she was happily and independantly living alone, driving and I called her daily just to checck in. It has been an experience - only wish I had some family who could have helped - but Mom has adjusted to the Home for Dementia pretty well, and with every visit, I have developed a greater appreceation for the care she has been getting.
New Topic Post Reply Printable Version
Forum Information
Currently it is Tuesday, August 21, 2018 11:11 AM (GMT -6)
There are a total of 2,995,101 posts in 328,195 threads.
View Active Threads

Who's Online
This forum has 161316 registered members. Please welcome our newest member, Donna_S.
284 Guest(s), 9 Registered Member(s) are currently online.  Details
clocknut, mattamx, brrogers10, Bohemond, Bob in Elkridge, RobLee, LauraBB, borborygmi, Tall Allen