Padraig..I certainly concur with Rosie you are so sweet and for sure one in a million....yes I lost Mom last month on March 20th ....three days after St.Paddy"s day in which was a hard time as well as I had lost my first hubby on that day in 1979 ...Dad and Rick always celebrated that day together and they did agian that day ....We got a call at 7 pm that night that Rick had been in a car accident and died instantly........My Dad was as you are with your wife and I went down to look after them both he is slipping away and I think it is because he has lost Mom and doesnt really know what to do with self .alone in a big house full of memories .......I can picture you with your wife I saw the love between my Mom and Dad and it was a love I have never seen before ......Or heard the likings to really except for Rosie's Mom for her Dad.......and her love of her family and parents ...
It is so true that when I look in the mirror I see Mom and I also see her in my daughter Cait .....She will forever live on
You are the only one as far as I am concerned that REALLY KNOWS your beautiful wife not these Doc's and as for not resucitating ..unless there is a DNR they have to do it .I just went thru it with Mom .......At the end she was just tired of fighting this all and gave up ...She lived a fulfilled life with great great grand babes and all as well she had a hubby much like you......I am truly grateful that HE has sent you to us I truly believe He did ......You have made us here all feel great knowing there are Men / and women out there that really will stick by their Vows and thats a hard thing to find in this day and age......The ones on this board know what I am saying...Thank you for being the wonderful husband and human being you are.....We look forward to your daily posts ........
I have also lost a child so I can honestly say I know this does affect us in so many ways
Please keep us posted and you also take care of you ......God Bless You and Give You Strength to keep going and keep these Docs on their toes .they will surely learn a lot from you ........Til the next time ........Lyn
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Post Edited (Lyn (Howlyncat)) : 4/18/2006 2:15:04 PM (GMT-6)