I really believe it is time for tough love .....My mom had a way of pulling on my guilt strings we (Cait and I ) did all for her none of the other siblings did a thing except take money and us her credit cards and credit rating which was excellent .......I always was close to MOm but she played me kinda like a fine violin,.....and Cait
My doctor told me that Mom actually could cause me to be sick and he was right the stress would cause me to break out in sores and crohns to act up ........I never hesitated nor did cait to do anything for her....
I loved Mom dearly and do not regret taking care of her but I do not feel she did what your SIL mom is doing to her .......It has to stop and I think that Elie is totally right on this whole thing .........Your Sil can and will suffer permanent damage ...will she come here to talk to us and have our support as well as the families support and concern?? I hope you ask her and let her know we are here to help if we can ....I feel so useless in this situation and I wish I could do more for her and all of you ......God Bless........Lyn
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