So good to hear from you
How have you been have not heard from you for so long seems forever ............
Dad really never had it hit home with him about
Mom and still calls me by her name at times or will make her a cup of coffee as was his routine .....Mom would cough and dad would have her cup there second cough meant next cup lol
They had given all of us kids so much and it angers me so much that none of the others will do anythig for Dad now that Mom i gone along with the money ya know
Mom was the "accountant" well she thougt she was I had to do all banking and everything but they would go behind my back and get her to give them her Credit cards and she also had an
open line of credit at Sctia bank here in Canada (which cheque is basically cash ) and they did a number on that I am still sorting thru so much of it all and finding things about
all of them that angers me to no END.......
I found that younger sister got Mom to buy her a car for 5000.00......with arrangements to pay $200 per month ..2 payments made
Her daughter and B/F got Mom supposedly to be a co signer for a big screen TV and stereo .well turns out Mom was the actual signer and now because she died they owe nothing:IMO they should be paying Dad this monies owed monthly
so in all the things they got from her for nothing is sickening and THEY feel no guilt no remorse
How can they live with selves
They never cleaned her up took her to appointments NOTHING except take advantage of her
BUT nor do they have the memories I have of her and the time I spent with her and the gift she was to me and my daughter.......
We got to share so much with her not monetarily but emotionally and lovingly and to me thats what they missed out on and thats why I can hold my head HIGH knowing I gave and did all I coulf for Mom
Same as with Dad I too am the only one (howie and cait) that do anything for himUNLESS they get something out of it ya know ...........
I will find it hard to lose Dad as I have always been closer although he is not biological father he is mine in all senses of the word and has always been there for me .........Never once did he give up on me and I was a realy bad teen lol got into everything ( grew up in 50's ) lol so...........I treasure each and every moment with him then and now and I know I will be glad for it
Sandra thanks so much as you can see I needed to get that off my chest and I want you to know I appreciate your love and friendship in so many ways
you are my special Angel
Love ya sis
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