Thank You Lyn,
Your words encourage me to know that in this world I am not completely alone. I know that God is watching and My Lord is always by my side and Mary's!
As far as legal help I am in the Heart of Hill country in Texas and there is no legal aid in this area for the poorer of the community nor will any attorney's here listen to any of this maybe only politely!
Her son that caused all the problems in part of this communities GOOD O' BOY's He has been with the local Police Dept. for many years and is a ranking member of their gold shield (detective) group! I have no control on any of this nor can obtain it! I can only worry about her well being. I will talk to her doctor Monday if I can reach her! There is no Alzheimer's local office here because the local county would not fund it well enough to keep it here. The community is a retirement area and there are many elderly folks here whom have dementia and Alzheimer's problems.
But that is a reality of the area so legally I am trapped on this issue.
I did inform them that I would no longer cater to their demands in my (our) home that if they could come and go and see her anytime they wanted that I would never come between her and them after all she is their mother and I felt they should be willing enough to show such respect for both her as their mother and for me as the one who has taken good care of her for all these years!
The common law issue on Texas is a three prong law of proof of or as. For her she gets some state help for her health Medicare and Medicaid and if we declare marriage rights she will lose her Medicaid because what I earn is then combined with hers which throws everything out that she has gotten and will continually get! As well as take away some smaller breaks that I get on my health care! It is as it is in the US today no matter how the election turns out here in Texas this will not change. This is an Ultra Conservative State that equitable rules for all people do not apply! There are one set of rules for the wealthy and one set for the working and lower economically class of peoples! I am not in that upper position and my health as well as my resources are very limited keeping me from hiring an attorney that may want to deal with such a case and here one to do against this establishment is very limited. Her sons best friends wife was the country treasure here!
I am not afraid of them for that reality my life is drawing to-wards a close too so so therefore taking what I don't have doesn't bother me and one day when its my time I will be with our Lord and I feel hopeful He will look well at me and I know He knows I have done the best I could with every thing He has put before me including Mary's children who have no concept of such thinking.
The world's ways are made up of the things of this world and for me I know such will rust and fall apart I will hold on to my knowledge that His World is made up only of a righteous spirit that I can hope that we all will be worthy enough to accept!
So keep up the prayers all needed and wanted above all things and cry not for Mary and I but cry for them who have lost their hearts of comprehending are blinded by their own lights! I pray for them daily even though I ma so angry at them for what they have done out of arrogance and synonymous with that is just plan ignorance for that I am very sad for them! As it is written God is Love and Love is God and to be one with God means I copy such love not for self but for those who do us the most harm!
Again thank you and cry not be glad for me that as one person in my ending years I know the truths of the errors of my own ways and accept that God is in control and from these errors of my own and from His control I am a better person who accepts the Holy Spirit of my Lord! IN that smile over what you have read of me and My sweet Mary for she is not mine she like you is His too as are her children!
Plus I thank God for the words from somebody so far away who has given me over the past fews day so much encouragement to endure during these rough times!
David aka rabbin