Hi Lyn. I want to say that I am thinking of you and your struggle with the letter writing and everything. I can imagine like you said already that it will be an emotionaly draining thing to do ,but once it is done you will probably feel like a weight has been lifted from your shoulders.
I would also like to add that although I dont always know how to respond to some of your posts,I do read them and I do apreciate the time and effort that you put into this board even though you have a full plate.
Thanks lyn and look after yourself