I bumped up a thread called "Nursing Homes.....Check it out " and if you look in there you will find the NH he is in ..........
It rates the homes and quality of care from staff how the residents are treated ect.,,,,,I was in total shock when I saw these reports .
NO hun they wont ever stop saying they want to go home , they will continually want that or if not that then something else .My mom was like that at the end ( she passed away 9 mths ago) but I had her at her house and looked after her ( I am retired geriatric nurse)
I now am looking after my dad ( step) but he was GOOD and always was great with us kids when he came into my life at 8 yrs old as well he loved mom dearly and was not mentally nor physically abusive .
How is your mom holding up thru all this hum it has to be hard,why can the children he had forget what happened yrs ago and HELP her out now
I truly believe God see's it all and acts accordingly ya know
I am proud of you for going there each day even though he has hurt you and there is resentment
there .......still you go .......
I really would check out the NH he is in something ios not sitting too well within me about
the care he is NOT getting .....yes clothes especially under garments need and should be changed daily ...Please read the thread about
the homes and find the one he is in you might just be suprised and even as shocked as I was
Hoping you post often and if you need to talk my info is under my name feel free to add me to yahoo or MSN I would enjoy talking with you
You are a special person as is your mom
God Bless and keep you both in His arms
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