Please do check out Resources at side in yellow
I am in Ontario Canada and I had Moms poa for Medical ,even after death and what to do with her body .......
I was included in ALL aspects of her health care
As I am with my Dad now
I think you have to go by where you live ,laws there and what is determined in your area
Please keep posting and getting support here it is the best site IMO
Again read in resources and see what you find
I will also do some checking
Could you please email me ( under name on side )
and I will get some more info for you
ChanSuMing .......Obviously ( sounds like anyways ) you have had bad experiences
But again all things and doctors are not bad .......
My mother was NOT deemed unfit nor is father .......and I had and have POA for Dad and did for Mom.......
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