The Explanation regarding the turmoil on the site from your Moderators

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Date Joined Apr 2007
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   Posted 3/3/2008 4:37 PM (GMT -6)   
Dear Members,
A lot of you have noticed that things have been a little out of hand in the last week or two and we, as moderators, would like to explain what has been going on now that  the problem has  been resolved. We will not give out all the  details as it is not necessary and would be disrespectful.
Most of you will know about Maddi and BabyTiger22. It was believed that Maddi had been lying about most of the things that were said on HealingWell, both in the chat room and the forum threads. The longer that she was allowed to post, the more irregularities appeared to the point where some of the moderators were convinced beyond reasonable doubt that she was lying. Although we cannot prove it distinctly, we also believed that Maddi was using another account in the name: BabyTiger22 although We will continue to refer to them as seperate identities for the purposes of this post. In the last few days (While Maddi was supposed to be in a coma) BabyTiger22 has been very irritable with various moderators and this has lead to exchanges of emails, some of which have been quite hostile. For this reason, both accounts have been closed.
As far as we are concerned this is an end to the matter. We want everyone to know that we, as moderators, dont have anything to hide. We have done what we have thought best and have acted professionally and considerately. This should not detract from anyone else and We want you to know that we all care about ALL of our members.
If anyone has any questions, we request that you  would kindly   email them. Our email addresses are avaialbale on the screen and in our profiles.
On behalf of the Moderators of the A & P Forum, thank you for your time and patience,

Kitt, Moderator: Anxiety ~ Panic  ~ Crohn's
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It is health that is real wealth and not pieces of gold and silver.~Mahatma Gandhi~

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   Posted 3/3/2008 5:26 PM (GMT -6)   
THanks for the great explanation
Let us all move on from here plz
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   Posted 3/3/2008 9:41 PM (GMT -6)   
Navy informed me that some people took my posts as me being disrespectful and rude. However, I NEVER meant any disrespect to anyone, honestly. Thats totally not me, and I would never do that on purpose. I wasnt questioning the Mods, not purposely, I was only curious and was wondering. I just want to apologize to everyone, especially those who were offended and those who took it the wrong way. I never meant to hurt anyone, and I wasnt trying to push the subject. I was only trying stick up for a very good friend of mine. Im sorry some people took my posts the wrong way because I would never be like that. For those who know me, you guys know I am not like that. I would never try to hurt any of you in any way. I hate that people took what I said the wrong way. I was upset and I didnt mean to sound like I did.

It means alot to me that you all are here. I have went through the worst on here and I have made it out, because of myself, and because of the support I have recieved here. So, I am very grateful for everyone on here and I want to say I am sorry for my posts. I never meant to hurt anyone in any way, and Im sorry. I just hope you all will forgive me and we can get past this.


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   Posted 3/4/2008 1:56 AM (GMT -6)   
Thankyou for explaining all that, (I was getting confused)I've been in hospital and missed most of it....I'm really sad that this has happened and I thank our wonderful, exceptional mods for picking up on and fixing this.  We love you guys xxxxx

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Date Joined Nov 2007
Total Posts : 146
   Posted 3/4/2008 7:38 AM (GMT -6)   
I knew something was say you will never post here again and then keep posting...weird. Thanks for keeping control and acting professionly. I think it must take a great deal of time out of the moderators day to keep up with this forum, you guys always respond to every post. I just want you to know it is appriciated and I am sure you have helped many. :) Thanks!!


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Date Joined Apr 2005
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   Posted 3/4/2008 9:35 AM (GMT -6)   
I just want to thank all the mods for all their hard work. I know I have been helped here more than anything and I really do appreciate all you do.
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   Posted 3/4/2008 9:49 AM (GMT -6)   

This site was created for the members and it shall remain a safe and caring place to come to for support.
Thank you to all of you, the members, you are HealingWell.


Kitt, Moderator: Anxiety ~ Panic  ~ Crohn's
*~* *~*
It is health that is real wealth and not pieces of gold and silver.~Mahatma Gandhi~

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Date Joined Jan 2008
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   Posted 3/4/2008 1:02 PM (GMT -6)   
eyes   confused
PS: I used these emoticons yesterday and it was deleted. It was not in a negative sense but more that I was shocked/dumbfounded that something like this would happen. Maybe I am still naive and belief the best of a person until proven otherwise. I am glad it was resolved before festering into something bigger.
Thank you and I did not delete your post but all moderators and the administrator have the ability to  delete a post.
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Post Edited (Getting there) : 3/4/2008 11:42:48 AM (GMT-7)

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   Posted 3/4/2008 2:08 PM (GMT -6)   
I deleted the posts, because this is not healthy, nor is it helping anyone. The topic is finished, I do not mean to be hurtful, but make no mistake this is done.
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Post Edited (MMMNAVY) : 3/4/2008 1:26:19 PM (GMT-7)

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