Staying or not is one issue but relationship is working hard to make each other happy,it should not be full time work but needs effort and honesty from both ppl.Your anxiety about
women abandoning you needs to be worked on ,you should tell her your real feelings and how you felt in past when she walked out on you and how hurtful it was.If she loves you ,she needs to understand that's childish and hurtful and should not be repeated .
Forming a relationship with someone is easy and exiting can be easy for some ppl but hardest challenge is to maintain a relationship among all of this turmoil without taking each other for granted .She takes you for granted which her actions show ,or maybe she got annoyed on something serious you did.Look into reasons and have a heart to heart talk to her.
Relationship is always mutual ,not 1 way street .
Let her know you are important person made of flesh and blood and emotions with many flaws(nobody is perfect ,is she ) which she will care about
only if she loves you and wants to work out things along with you for better or worse.
Good luck !!!!
Never work just for money or for power. They won't save your soul or help you sleep at night.
~Marian Wright Edelman~
I have discovered that all human evil comes from this, man's being unable to sit still in a room.
Post Edited (yana21) : 3/11/2008 11:58:41 AM (GMT-6)