I apologize beforehand if my post makes anyone feel uncomfortable,it isn't my intent to cause pain.I just need to vent coz I am really MAD!
Though my Sister Friend and I aren't Blood related,I think of her as the big Sister I no longer have.What hurts her hurts me.
She has been sick past couple of Day's.She has a Liver Disease that occasionally makes her Liver quiver and Abdomen fill with Fluid.When this happens it presses against her Diaphragm and Spine making it difficult to breathe and causing her Back to hurt.
Anyway she told me her Husband (who is a LOSER from LOOSERVILLE) came in from Work few Mornings ago and helped himself to sex whilst she was sleeping and bloated like a 9 Month Pregnant Woman ready to deliver an Elephant.
She told me it's her Wifely duties.I told her NO it's NOT!He violated her and to me it's Rape.
He has ED,so sex is on HIS terms,it's the same position everytime,it is always about pleasing him( EDIT) when he doesn't enjoy to begin with and he won't go to Doctor and get help for his "problem".
She told me knowing he can't perform.Most of the time he does this 20 minutes before he leaves for Work.
I don't know why she would want him to touch her,but then I also understand she
He doesn't help out around the House (pay bills,make repairs etc).He has now decided if he writes tons of hot Checks he won't have to give her Money to pay Bills.
He goes 4 Day's at a time without bathing,she told me his Underwear is filthy (he doesn't change everyday,but changes those Socks),he doesn't Brush his Teeth (and when he does he uses HER Toothbrush).I gave her a new Toothbrush that she hides in the other Bathroom.
He hates her Kids and Grandkids and doesn't want them over..he snaps and is hateful towards all of them..all he does is work 8 hours per Night in a cool environment at a sit down job,but sleeps all Day including his Day's off.He is one of these "lay in Bed and watch Television" types.
I have done everything even pleaded and begged she kick him out and file for Divorce.She told me she will in her own timing and she can't live with guilt.If she kicks him out right now she will sink financially (she is anyway).
I am SO MAD,I could walk over there and
YOU get the picture........
Due to the fact we have 13 yr olds on this site I had to edit some of your post......
If you need an explanation as to why in more detail plz do email me okay
Post Edited By Moderator (Howlyncat) : 6/23/2008 6:29:57 AM (GMT-6)