I love and care about her very much,however get frustrated because she complains to me and her other Friends about her sufferings and situation,yet won't do anything to change it.
I'm going to explain the best I can about what is going on.
Latter 2005 she met a Man from another Country on the internet.She forked out a ton of Money (Air-fare,gave him extra Money to buy things he would need for his visit,paid all fees for wiring papers/documents and he helped himself to her Credit Card) so he could come for a visit.
When he went for his first Visa interview the Consular Officer denied him a Tourist Visa because he didn't produce enough documentation that proved ties to his Homeland and would return after the length of his stay.
The CO gave him a second interview appointment.Before he returned a vicious Australian Woman who the Guy angered "dobbed" him in to the US Embassy,so when he returned the CO stamped denied.
Since he couldn't come to US my Sister Friend bought fare for the both of them to meet in Canada.On his way to Canada instead of getting a Transit Visa to enter US he decided to stay in Australia and have a little Holiday (on my Sister's Money) with a Woman he met before my Sister.
Because of the debt he placed her in she had to remortgaged both her Homes and Vehicle.Having to pay Mortgage and a Car payment she did not previously have makes it very hard to pay Utilities,buy Food and other necessities.
Early 2005 she met a Man on the Internet from another State.They chit-chatted,exchanged Music and spent a lot of time together.After awhile they began having deeper feelings for each other,but ran for being scared.
She met her current Husband a little later and ran straight into his Arms and now has found herself in a much deeper mess.
She is taking all this crap from him because she is hoping he will get her out of the financial mess that another Man placed her in.
He walked and abandoned her latter September.When he left she took off for the Guy she ran from.She stayed 1 Month and returned here and she and her Husband went back together.She and the Man from another State are going at it and preparing to be together again secretly behind her Husband's Back.