Post Edited By Moderator (stkitt) : 8/22/2008 2:51:31 PM (GMT-6)
Anger causes wrinkles!! I can understand your frustration with this, but holding on to anger only makes US sick and bitter. Let it go (and save a fortune on wrinkle cream!) lol
IMHO, I agree with the members that have adviced you to let go of the anger and leave it in the past.
For every minute you are angry, you lose sixty seconds of happiness. ~Author Unknown
Kitt, Moderator: Anxiety/Panic & Depression& GERD Forums*~*
I can't be 100% certain,but after a bit of thought,it's a possibility my Biological Mother may have been Beneficiary until her death.If she was Beneficiary I can understand Dad naming another,however when he married my Step-Mother she should have been named Beneficiary.
Saying the above,I have this feeling that my Aunt has been Beneficiary all along because she is "slick" and a Money hungry Cow!She probably thought that one Day she was going to pocket a BIG Life Insurance.Well,Dad didn't keep the Premium paid,so she didn't get it!
You are correct when you said it's the past,however I got screwed!I don't like being screwed especially when I didn't enjoy it!If Dad would have kept the Premium paid and the Beneficiary had been changed into my Step-Mother's name and she being deceased,I would have received the LI.
You don't know my Aunt.She can almost always talk weak,sick,grieved and disabled People into doing anything.This is how "smooth" she is.My Father's final Wife told me Dad did most everything she (Aunt) told him to do.Yes,I'm carrying lots of anger around,however have very good reasons.The Legal System says I have to contend with these witches until Dad's affairs are settled.I'm NOT ashamed to go to Therapy,I'm upset about something a previous Therapist jotted in her notes.Doctor's and Therapists write whatever they want even if it's untrue.I'm sure some (or all) will disagree (and that's OK coz we're entitled to our opinions),but I deem anger a normal and natural Human emotion just like happiness or sadness.I wouldn't want to be stuck in the same emotion mode all the time.In my line of thought,it isn't "normal".I would rather be angry,cry and get it over with than pretending everything is OK (when it's not) and it eating me up inside.
Does this Therapist only operate from your City and does Insurance cover?
When my loved ones and I are used or taken advantage of,it doesn't set well.I told my Attorney in March that when Dad's Final business is settled,I completely wash my Hands of my Aunt and the Sister in-law.These Women would wear out the Saints of the most high God!The Healthiest way to deal with my Aunt is to stop every line of communication with her.She is Toxic to the MAXX!My Sister Friend creates a lot of her problems.When I move we won't have much contact if any at all.
If I get Wrinkles like a Sister of my Biological Mother and they're witch of a late Mother,I'll get Botox!
You are correct about Anger.
Remember that anger is not wrong as it is a normal human emotion. We are born with the ability to feel anger.
There are times when we should get angry and stand up for our rights or the rights of others who cannot do it for themselves.
It is when this anger is not controlled that we get into trouble so please don’t let your anger consume you.
I am so happy that you are setting goals and planning for a positive outcome once your Father's estate is settled.
I'm angry at what was done to my late Biological Mother,Dad,Step-Mother and Grandmother.I've witnessed numerous times how these Women treated them and know the wrongs committed against them.
I am also angry at what they've done to me.Two of the many reasons I came out of this House was to stand up for myself and to protect my best interests.If I hadn't of they would have taken what I had left.
I'm going to move,finish School,obtain a Professional Career,Travel (America and abroad) and do things Sydnee wants to do with her life!
Good for you, stick to it and don't let anything stand in your way of making your goals a reality.
All I have left is my 2 Legs to stand on and that's exactly what I'm going to do.