Hi all, Im new here and this looks like a great place for some advice.
To give a tiny bit of background information on my situation, I have to go back 2 years. I at this point, I had a girlfriend for 2 years, and we had broken up, and she started seeing someone else (even though she said she just wanted break and she wasnt going after anyone else) which I had to find out through someone else, so that hurt a lot. So, I tried to move on by getting myself a new girlfriend. The EX and I still seemed to talk to one another and I was hung up on trying to win her back even though I was seeing someone new. I know that was NOT fair to the new girl, but I guess thats where my heart was at the time, and I feel awful for doing it :( Anyway, the EX and I still would hang out with each other while seeing other people. Even tho I really wanted my EX back, ,
That whole time, I had bad anxiety, I would wake up with it, and spend the whole day with a that feeling you get when youre about to walk on stage infront of 1000s of people. I couldnt go to the gym like I was used to, and I even didnt eat anywhere close to what I should have been
But once things didnt work out for either of us, the EX and I got back together, and I never had that problem ever again.
The EX and I got back for another 2-3 years, and now we had both decided it was best if we werent together anymore.
I have been 'single' for about 8-9months this time, because I didnt want to rush into another relationship and hurt an innocent girl, I learned my lession (I was really stupid to do that, I know, but I was dumb and confused back then)
I have now met this new girl, and have been talking to her for 3 weeks, and have gone on just one date with her. Everything went very well, and we both flirted with each other the whole night, it was great!
But now that anxiety feeling has returned. It came back when I had just 1 day to go before our planned date. I was fine during the date, but once I got home, I have been feeling anxiety ALL day and cant shake it off.
I do not think I want my EX back, but im worried nonetheless that this will lead to more problems 'preforming'
I think I still have a good appetitite, and I am still going to try to go to the gym as much as possible!
The EX and I barely talk nowadays, ,and when we would talk, it would usually end in an argument.
Im not sure what to do, or think, does anyone have any suggestions? Im getting really worried, and I hate this constant feeling because I know what it did to me before
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Post Edited By Moderator (stkitt) : 10/26/2008 9:37:58 AM (GMT-6)