Hello and welcome to HealingWell. I am Kitt. There are solutions to the problem of ED so keep the faith and think positive.
Psychological and behavioural responses to ED can lead to a vicious cycle of increased uneasiness, panic and decreased self esteem. This is a issue that affects the lives of many men, you are not alone with this issue.
ED often results from a combination of different causes, which comprise of organic and psychogenic factors.
In addition to life stressors resulting in anxiety, erectile problems themselves can lead to specific anxiety. Performance anxiety, resulting from the patient's concerns over his erectile response and durability of his ______, is always present even if at different levels.
Performance anxiety leads to increasing anxiety and increasing ED resulting in a vicious cycle of failure and escalating anxiety/panic.
Sexual anxiety counselling along with the Levitra and checking the side effects of any of your meds may break cycle your stuck in right now.
Please remember _______ are a reflex response. They are not under the conscious control of the mind.
What may help you best is to relax, seek situations creating desire and arousal and to focus on positive images rather than anticipate failure. This may be assisted using pharmacotherapy as success will breed success.
ED leads to frustration which may result in irritation. Psychosexual counselling is one of the best ways to deal with your feelings. Resource: Hale VE, Strassberg DS
I hope some of this helps you and please know that you are wise and brave in seeking help with your issue.
I hope that you can break out of your cycle and remember you are a good man and this does not make you less of a man.