Something similar to this happened to me. I carried my anger with a Dr. for
a couple of years. I wrote a letter, signed it and didn't mail it. I wrote a letter,
didn't sign it and didn't mail it. I wrote a post card. Didn't send it. Wrote a letter
to the Board of doctors where he works and didn't mail or sign it.
I kinda understand your feelings about
this nurse. Honest. Your love and caring is
so strong that even a slight comment would have put you over the line at this time.
My advice: Don't think of it. When love is involved we feel soooo strongly. Medical
people are sometimes brutal with their words. I've met 100 mean medics - maybe
wiggyann, that nurse was a jerk!
I'm curious to know what your psychologist says.
I don't come to this board often because my husband seems to be over his prostate
problems. E-mail if you will?
Maybe next time you can keep this in mind, "It causes as much suffering when you
take offense as when you give offense." You could STILL write to that doctor.
Be sure you don't say anything that could, eeeeeek, cause a slander law suit!
After what you've been through that would just be awful.
My thoughts and understanding are totally with you this cold November day.
Post Edited (Pamela Neckpain) : 12/6/2008 11:55:11 AM (GMT-7)