How do I deal............to be honest I don't always deal as I have taken my 2 adult children to therapy and the therapist explained it all to them. The next time I met with my therapist she asked what I thought of how it went bringing the kids and having her explain as the kids asked questions.
I told the therapist, one of them understood and the other one did not. My daughter was looking for a boiler plate answer on how to deal with Mom. She agreed completely as My daughters question were more to the how do we know when she really needs us and when she is just upset.
When I call either one on a day I really need support they just chalk it up to Mom is having a bad day....................
I had a bad day once this week and I did call my daughter who came over on a limited time frame ( just like at the Pdoc) and her idea was "want to go to Sam's club with us tonight?"
My husband is so confused by all the meds and cannot understand what meds I am prescribed for what. He ends up angry and frustrated as the drama is just to much for him so he heads up north where it is peaceful...............and of course I am not there.
So how do I handle it, alone and with you my family here and my Big Sis.
Well that is my story and I don't want to trigger the past so right now I am returning to the present moment.
Bless each of you.