It has been a rough day or couple of days for me as well
My younger brother my fav actually was picked up and put in jail for non payment of support
Hids wages are guarentied( sp) everywhere he works and then they go take him in making him lose job and miss Christmas with the family
WHAT got me so upset as I told lil sis on phone was the fact that his so called WIFE was asked and even OFFERED gas money from us to go visit him tomorrow morning.........
Sher( SIL) just got an 800.00 plus check for Child tax credit we have here in Ontario
(I get 374.00 for Cait .........it is banked for her eduacation and her needs
Anyways I asked her again as she did at first jump at the chance when we offered her money but now she does not WANT to go and stated that if he is in for more than 30 days she is leaving and going to Manitoba
YES.....He is wrong for NOT paying off the child support and procratinating over it but he also has 3 children of hers ( his step children) to also support and feed...........
When my bro calls me tomorrow
I have NO idea of what to do but to tell the truth to tell him
I am afraid he will do something drastic ..........Last time Howie caught him just in time with a weapon........ in Mouth
He has supported her and the kids for over 10 yrs ....she left once and got preggars by another man and he took her back when still preggars ,,,,,I cut Dakoda's cord and we all have treated him as family.........Dakoda is asking all the time when is daddy coming home
I am so angry and hurt by what she is doing to him
The jail he is in has the Bandido's in it and it is Maximunm security
I am literally falling apart but I WILL not break out in sores I am too angry and will not let them come out.....
I also here ya on the fight with the other half we had a dosey the other day as well and he is blaming it on his sugar ( diabetic ) but I have lived with Caits dad and he did the same thing
I will not live like this again.......................It is up to him to control his food and sugar and blood levels
I am so sorry for all you have gone thru as well hun
THANKS for posting on this thread.......you are an asset to our forum............
Also I am so sorry about your family and those you are missing.........yes it is going to be a rough Christmas this yr IMHO......***.BTW I am not the only one that comes up with ideas for threads
Lil sis and I kick thoughts about them around in our minds and we then find a way to start a good one hoping it will help and get others involved LYN
LUVS Sam n (((( )))))) your friend ......LYN...........thanks for letting me vent all ......
Have NO idea what I did
But lil sis ..........if you can fix it for me .........lol ......I would appreciate it soooooooooo