Tootie, your husband sounds like a grade A bully, not like the caring, supportive partner you need. obviously you need to make the best out of your situation with him, but l doubt talking to him will work (i get the feeling he is a poor communicator and wont listen...). You take as long as you need to grieve your tremendous loss. marriage is not a dictatorship and there is no time limit on the grieving process- especially at holiday time. p.s id like to see him do his OWN laundry, or baking, or try and do HALF the chores you do, keeping the house and family together- then maybe he'd appreciate what you do.
thinking of you- Maz XX
p.s you can ALWAYS come here for support XX
'He heals the broken hearted and binds up their wounds.' (Psalm 147:3)
Panic Disorder, Agoraphobia, CFS, Fibromyalgia, TMJ disorder, Endometriosis, PCOD, Chronic E.N.T infections, Reactive Arthritis, GERD, Sinusitis, IBS, Allergies, Glandular fever, Migraines, Anemia, Chemical/Noise/Light sensitivity, Trichotilomania, PTSD, Seasonal Mood Disorder, OCD, Benign Vertigo, Impaired immune system. Tachycardia, tinnitus, low clotting factor= bruising. Tendonitis, Bursitis.
Meds: Zoloft 150mg. Xanax 4mg. Celebrex. Mobic. Panadeine Forte. Digesic.
Multiple surgeries- I bear the scars of my poor physical health.
Age:28. First diagnosed at 14. Proud Aussie.
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