It is a very frightning feeling to be stalked...I am taking a break from men at the moment as I have reciently been in a similar situation....He was everywhere, outside my house, stalking me, on the phone, sending Txt, hundreds. I threatened to call the police many times. He scared me!! I think it is natural to feel a little angry or betrayed. If u are like me you are still a little shakey from the whole experience and the sudden death may have brought all these natural feeling back 10 fold! I think it is time to let the fear go and move on. Dont hold it against your husband or boyfriend. Try your hardest to release it as resentment, fear and anger can make you very sick if you hold it for to long. I do understand your feelings and I feel for you but i do know you will let it go and move on when you are ready. You are a surviver babe! Be proud! gillxx
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Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly!
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And never regret anything that made you smile
Post Edited (gilly-love) : 2/4/2009 5:18:03 PM (GMT-7)