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   Posted 2/27/2009 1:50 AM (GMT -6)   
Good Morning Family and it is finally Friday for the people working all week  smilewinkgrin
Confidence is hard to characterize but easy to spot. A person who is self-confident does not unrealistically fear the unknown and is willing to risk embarrassment, even when he/she is standing up for unpopular beliefs.
Today's Question:
Are you a confident person?


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Date Joined Oct 2008
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   Posted 2/27/2009 4:01 AM (GMT -6)   
Very much so. Have always had a confident personality, i think as a child my parents referred to it more as "precocious" lol, but thats me. My self esteem isnt great when it comes to my phsyical body that has changed because of illness, but otherwise, very confident and very assertive.
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Regular Member

Date Joined Jan 2009
Total Posts : 204
   Posted 2/27/2009 4:51 AM (GMT -6)   
At times I can be very confident but at other times quite nervous and shy. gillx


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Date Joined Apr 2005
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   Posted 2/27/2009 9:38 AM (GMT -6)   
I think I am pretty confident. Having lived with a chronic illness for so long has helped me I believe. But like Gilly there are times when I am nervous and shy.
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   Posted 2/27/2009 9:46 AM (GMT -6)   

Call me Gilly's twin.  It will depend on the circumstances.   smhair  

I believe I have the confidence  to trust my  judgments' and ability. I sometimes just need to stay in the moment and not second guess myself.


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Date Joined Sep 2006
Total Posts : 717
   Posted 2/27/2009 10:53 AM (GMT -6)   
I'm becoming alot more confident.  It's taken me alot of years and alot of re-aligning my thinking and undoing what family members did during my childhood, but I'm getting there.  I've got a ways to go, but at least I'm moving in the right direction now and it feels pretty good.

Regular Member

Date Joined Feb 2009
Total Posts : 119
   Posted 2/27/2009 2:08 PM (GMT -6)   
I'm not a very confident person at all. I wish I was. I've always let people walk all over me because I am not confident enough to stand up for myself. I do not like confrontation. I am working on this issue though. I've been trying to be more of an assertive person. :)

Georgie Girl
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Date Joined May 2008
Total Posts : 319
   Posted 2/27/2009 2:11 PM (GMT -6)   
I feel like I am overall confident. I was especially confident in my job until the last year or so.  Now even minor issues cause exacerbation of my anxiety. 
Georgie Girl
Bipolar, Anxiety Disorder, Rheumatoid Arthritis

Green Grove
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   Posted 2/27/2009 4:29 PM (GMT -6)   
I am pretty confident but at times I can be nervous and a little shy :) I used to be like this for years, so it is hard to be confident all of the time :)
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   Posted 2/27/2009 6:20 PM (GMT -6)   
Hmm... Is it possible to be confident (most of the time with a few spots of no confidence whatsoever) and unassertive at the same time?

Because I think that's what happens to me....

I'm usually confident enough to talk to complete strangers.... Make a complete fool out of myself (on purpose, for the sake of laughs) for strangers, friends... anyone really... Answer questions in class.... Ask questions in class...

That sort of thing...
I think I am being picked on by life, sometimes. But's that okay. Life and I are good buddies... I know life doesn't mean no harm. It just is the way it is. I can accept that.

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Date Joined Jan 2005
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   Posted 2/27/2009 7:29 PM (GMT -6)   
Great question Lil sis

I had alot of confidence til I hit bottom but I have 99% of it back and working very hard on the 1% I will get there
I swear I will .........

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Date Joined Dec 2006
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   Posted 2/27/2009 8:15 PM (GMT -6)   
I am not a very confident person.  I do question my decisions a lot and choices I make.  I am working hard to build my self-esteem.  Slow process for one who usually is in the background of most everything.  If I had to put a percentage on my confidence level it would be about 30-40%.


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Regular Member

Date Joined Feb 2009
Total Posts : 77
   Posted 2/27/2009 8:41 PM (GMT -6)   
I'm not confident most of the time although I do think I gained a little more assertiveness after I had my son and had someone else to think about besides myself.  I'm working on raising my confidence and self esteem in hopes that it will lower my anxiety plus it's always nice to just plain like yourself.  :-)
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