I think as Stkitt said you are still carrying baggage from your old relationship into this new one. You are worrying that the same thing is going to happen again. But you can't move forward if you are always looking in the rearview mirror. In other words, you can't move forward if you are comparing everyone else to your ex bf. I would suggest talking to a therapist about
this, maybe they can help you let go of the past, so you can enjoy your future.
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