I have been debating for the last few months about whether to leave for college or not. I'll be a transfer student, but since I am still a little behind it will probably take my roughly 2.5 more years to graduate instead of the traditional 2. I feel kinda bad making my parents pay and I have to take out all these loans for extra time there. Sometimes I think I can finish somewhere local, but I am truly so unhappy here. But I am afraid to leave my family, work, and boyfriend.
I'm so torn. Do you think I should just take out the loans, take my time there and go? Because I feel like I'll have to rush myself and have heavy courseloads to finish in time. If you were me, what would you do?