Panic Attacks/Sever Paranoia

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   Posted 6/1/2009 4:33 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi Guys! Not been here in a while! Right... I had/have this new boyfriend of 6 weeks. But I am driving the relationship apart as I can't stop getting paranoid about him cheating on me... (Everyone of my previous relationships has cheated on my with their ex's, or my best friends! Thats 7 people!) I've never been in a relationship where I haven't been cheated on or messed around and becuase of this... I can't help but get so paraniod, and have panic attacks, and make myself sick with worry to think that my new boyfriend is now going to be just the same!!! Even though ALL of his friends have said he's not like that, he has said it... and even I know it... He is different... I am the one and only girl that he has ever been serious about, I can't loose him! When my mum died, I thought my world was over... but with this guy, he has filled the hole in my heart that my mum left when she passed away 6 1/2 years ago... but because of my paranoia that empty space that he filled, is slowly starting to rip open again! I can't let this stupid paranoia and panic attacks etc destroy my relationship with him! (whats left of it anyway!) I couldn't take it if I did loose him 100% for good! It would be like loosing mum all over again and I can't cope with that... even just the thought of it!!! I need to stop this paranoia for good! NOW! Before the hole it my heart gets ripped open anymore! Does anyone have any advise I could use to stop myself from driving him away! More than I already have so far! Thanks! Love Princess! x <3 x confused

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   Posted 6/1/2009 7:52 AM (GMT -6)   

Hey there,

I am sorry you are having  anxiety over this relationship.  I do not have any great words of wisdom but I hope you can find trust in this relationship and then perhaps your anxiety will decrease.

Bless you,



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   Posted 6/1/2009 8:25 AM (GMT -6)   

Do you have therapist? I really think you need to get in and see someone about your fears. You have to remember that not every person is the same. I have had alot men cheat on me in the past, but am now blessed with a wonderful husband. You can't continue to live in this constant state of fear and insecurity or you will chase this nice young man away. Good luck!

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   Posted 6/1/2009 9:26 AM (GMT -6)   
thanks guys! I know... i'm already starting to push him away which is why i need to change this about me now! I have an appoinment with the doctors tomorrow morning so i can talking to him about either tablets, or medication, or counselling, or whatever to relieve the paranoia bit by bit... thanks again for everything! I just hope to go its not to little, to late! Princess! (hugs) x <3 x
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