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   Posted 6/16/2009 11:02 PM (GMT -6)   
been away alot not to much to say , just depressed, my husband has been out of work for 5 weeks, my essential tremors are getting worse probably because of the stress, he was supposed to get a interview today but the guy told my husband to call him this morning and he did and the guy was like i call you back in a hour never called back, why do i seem cursed why can't we have some luck for once, i feel selfish because you guys are going through alot, but we were being frugal trying to save money now its all going to be gone at the end of this month. i am sorry for being depressed but i try to be positive and reality sinks in and we start fighting are getting scared. cry cry cry

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   Posted 6/17/2009 1:01 AM (GMT -6)   
Not a good time to turn on each other, but we all do it. Especially when it comes to money problems. Remember, no matter what happens, you'll survive. Many are losing their homes and moving to apartments. This doesn't mean you can't own another home in a few years. Times are tough and it's very depressing. But you can't break down. You can't give up. Keep praying. A job will come along soon just don't give up!
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   Posted 6/17/2009 8:10 AM (GMT -6)   
Are you able to apply for any kind of state assistance? Is your husband not on unemployment? I agree with Aries, times are tough for many right now. Please don't give up, something will happen, I do believe that. I will definetly keep you and yours in my prayers.

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   Posted 6/17/2009 10:15 AM (GMT -6)   


I know life seems so unfair at times like these and it is hard to find any hope but keep on believing that things will get better and never give up or give in.  I believe in you and I know you are strong even thow right now you don't feel very tough.

Anything you can do to generate some income? Sometimes taking some temporary work is an option.  Do you have a agency to sign on with that places you in day to day jobs?

My thoughts are with you.

Gentle Hugs



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Date Joined Jun 2009
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   Posted 6/19/2009 1:15 AM (GMT -6)   
Hey don't worry things will get better. We had to sell our nice house and now live in a little trailer. But you know what it's all better when I thought it was all over. I have realized you don't need stuff to be happy. I wonder if I have tremors. Is that like a shaking all over? It happens every so often when I am nervous. People noticed it. Mostly in my head and hands. I guess I need to go out and do some sparring!

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Date Joined Oct 2008
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   Posted 6/19/2009 5:18 AM (GMT -6)   

Machelle im so sorry things are rough right now. You are in my thoughts and prayers, and you are strong. Hang in there-

sending you (((((((hugs))))))))))) from down under

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'He heals the broken hearted and binds up their wounds.' (Psalm 147:3)
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Regular Member

Date Joined Jun 2007
Total Posts : 491
   Posted 6/20/2009 2:43 AM (GMT -6)   
thanks everybody, one more bad thing happen today we bought our kids one of those blue swimming pools that 250$ but got it at the end of the season for 80$ the kids had a blast with it last year, we took it out to set it up today and there were 100 thousand black tree ants all over it well they ate 10 holes in the pool so far that we found, i'm sure there's more, cheez, i guess if it don't explode it will be one giant patch, i never heard of those type of ants doing that, this will be our 6th week layed off, hopefully this week is better luck

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Date Joined Apr 2009
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   Posted 6/20/2009 12:46 PM (GMT -6)   
Hey Machelle you know, I'm so used to saying " if its not one thing its another" so I definetly know how you feel. Always remember that things usually get worse before they get better so please keep your head up because things will be getting better for you soon. If life was always easy we would never appreciate the little things in life that mean so much. Just be strong it will all get better.
This too shall pass...

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