I am so sorry for your friends very traumatic loss.
I would have had a come-apart, too, not that it would make you feel any better. I have this thing I do in my mind where I try to put myself in the mind of a family member who has had such a loss. It throws me. I wish I knew how to not do that.
Don't have the right words for you, just that I'm sorry and I know how bad PA's feel.
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