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Date Joined Oct 2009
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   Posted 10/20/2009 8:37 PM (GMT -7)   
Alright , My boyfriend is out of town.. And He has recently jus gotta outa the hospital for O.D. On cocaine and pills...
The Doctor Said It's Lucky He is even Alive...
Okay, Well He is in a different state right Now.. Like I'm In Mississippi and He Is In Cali.
And I can't get ahold Of Him.. yesterday he said he was going to work and would talk to me later.. And ihavent heard from him since.. i texted and called him but he hasent picked up.. He is not one of those guys to ignore me.. And He knows I would Be worried about Him..
I cant call any of his fam or friends because they dont know that me and my bf are together.. and they cant know [[ long story ]] rolleyes
So, What do i do to find oUt if he Is oKAY.. i'M freaking Out.. Like ihave been havnig panic attacks.. I havent been able to keep any food down or anything.,
what do i do?
please help me.. shakehead

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   Posted 10/21/2009 4:15 AM (GMT -7)   
Dear Kay,
I am sorry if your boyfriend has been having problems and you are worried about him.  We are here as a peer support group to help people with anxiety which would be yourself. 
It is beyond the realm of this forum to identify ways to track down missing boyfriends who have voluntarily left to move on to another state from where you live. I am sorry but that is not our purpose in this forum.
I would like to suggest that you move on with your daily activities and when he is ready he will contact you.  Your anxiety seems to be tied to this man who has some serious medical and perhaps legal issues. Remember you cannot control other people only yourself and your own actions and feelings.
You may find that seeking counseling for yourself in learning how to deal with your feelings would be of great benefit to you.
I am sorry you are going through a rough time as I have been in your place at one time in my life.  I do understand the anxiety you feel.  Please take care of you.

Wishing you the best,



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