My girlfriends mom is getting suspicious

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   Posted 12/5/2009 6:30 PM (GMT -7)   
I am a teenager and a girl. My girlfriend and i were talking and we were posting up statuses for each other and im real lovey and i was like i love you and i miss you and stuff on my statuses. her mother isnt too approving and today she read my statuses and my girlfriend was like now my moms questioning me about your statuses and yer making my mom suspicious and stuff like that and the last time that happened she broke up with me because she didnt want her mom hating us and i am really scared i cant stop thinking about it i want to cry i dont know what to do shes not online why cant people try to understand im so scared and i just want to sit and cry forever and dont judge me i feel guilty enough as it is im really scared

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   Posted 12/5/2009 8:38 PM (GMT -7)   

Hello and welcome. First of all how old are you, you sound pretty young?

Every parent has nightmares about some of the friends their children hang out with. It is just the nature of parenting. Something has triggered your girlfriend's Mother to have concerns. Do you know what the something is?

I think for now taking a big breath and letting things cool down a bit would serve you well. You may be reading much more into the situation then is really happening.

Teenagers deal with stress in just about every facet of their lives: academics, sports, social situations, family life, money matters, even work. There is a great book out that you may want to try to find as it may help you in learning how to deal with stress, Don't Sweat the Small Stuff for Teens, Simple Ways to Keep Your Cool in Stressful Times by Richard Carlson, Ph.D.

Again welcome to HealingWell and I am glad to meet you,


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   Posted 12/6/2009 9:45 AM (GMT -7)   
So you say she broke up with you before. That implies you have some kind of romantic relationship and you're both girls? Unfortunately society just isn't all that accepting of stuff like that. Things are changing but it will take time, and there are generational issues, too. It sucks to say this but if your parents have a problem with it the best thing to do would be to keep it as private as you can. You know if your parents are cool with it or they don't nose around in your stuff but her parents do, you have to respect your girlfriend by helping her keep it private and thus avoiding all the trouble with her parents, see?

I just woke up. Hope that makes sense.

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   Posted 12/6/2009 3:59 PM (GMT -7)   

Back on 10/4 you posted a nearly identical post to this one re your girlfriend in the Depression Forum.

I think we could use a bit more information re your feeling anxious and we would be glad to support you here.

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