Divorce is very hard not only on us, but on our children. I know my girls, all adults now, really could have benefited from some counceling. Let them go, I think it would be really good for them. As for the ex just do the best you can with your kids. In the future they will see who they really could count on and who they couldn't. Good luck and healing prayers going your way.
Gail*Nanners* Co-Moderator for Crohns Disease & Anxiety/Panic
Crohn's Disease for over 34 years. Currently on Asacol, Prilosec, Estrace, Prinivil, Diltiazem, Percoset prn for pain, Zofran, Phenergan, Probiotics, Calcium, Vit D, and Xanax prn. Resections in 2002 & 2005. Also diagnosed w/ Fibromyalgia, Osteoarthritis, & Anxiety. Currently my Crohns is in remission, but my joints are going crazy!