Hello and welcome to HealingWell. After reading your post it struck me that you have a lot going on in your life and you have a right to feel anxious as long as you do not let it rule your everyday routines.
Moving is always stressful and you have left behind your family whom I am sure was a major part of your support system. You have a child that you spent 6 months alone with so your hubby could take this new position and now you may be wondering was it worth it.
As far as your husband not appearing to be as "bothered" about losing his position, perhaps he is trying to keep from showing his worries from you so as not to stress you further. My hubby is a worrier but he does not like to talk about it.
You seem to need to talk with others and vent your feelings so you have come to the right place.
Try not to anticipate a bad outcome and know that you can deal with what ever comes your way. Keep on believing in yourself and stick with us.
Again a warm welcome,
~~Kitt~~Moderator: Anxiety/Panic, Osteoarthritis, GERD/Heartburn and Heart/Cardiovascular Disease. www.healingwell.com"If you can't change the world, change your world"