Ok, I have tried not to say this, so that's an indicater, it is the wrong thing.
Either take what I say, or discard it.
opened up to a loved one, and told them how I was really feeling at times, or at some stages through life, and if they in turn changed the way they interacted towards me, this would make me feel very unsafe. I am with the close people in my life because they contribute to areas of my life, and I would still need them to carry that role for me.
I know I am not explaining very well, head filled with way too much at the moment.
What I am trying to say is this - Be the person you always have been towards him, clearly what you have is great, and you make each other happy in ways that others have not been able to do. I know what he said scared you, educate you, keep things
open with him, BUT, it shouldn't be the focus of your relationship, it should be a place you visit at times together, search for help together, grow healthier together, but provide each other with the foundations that the relationship was always on before your learn't of his dianoses.
Just my humble, uneducated, emotional answer.
I wish you both the best of luck
Post Edited (awty) : 11/16/2010 9:13:42 AM (GMT-7)