Posted 8/22/2014 3:45 PM (GMT -7)
Don't feel guilty...
For one, many people enjoy having the bed to themselves. It is more comfortable to stretch out, you don't have the other person rolling over and waking you, ect...
The other thing you bring up is also pretty common...relationships can cause conflict and stress.
However, that does not mean that they are not worth having...and they are good for us!
As long as you are able to resolve your issues and move on and be happy...that is just a part of being a couple.
Does my husband cause me anxiety at times? Oh yeah!! But would I want things any different? No...I love him and our life together, and the annoyances are just a small part of the big picture.
As the Blue's Traveler song goes...
"If you want peace, then live alone."
...but what a lonely existance...and probably not peaceful at all, right?
Continuing to work towards your goals, assuring your girl that she is not the cause of your anxiety...and that you want to be with her, good times and bad will help things to well for you both.:)