Well said Brenda! It sounds like you got a clear head and you know what you need to do! Your story is so much like my mom and my sister. My sister, though, is addicted to drugs. Somewhere in there really deep is a good person but my sister has allowed this addiction take full control of her life where she truly thinks the world revolves around her.
I have watched her barge into my moms house and demand money. I have seen her steal from her own kids. Every time she came over, she would cause a huge fight and my mom would always end up a nervous wreck.
My mom put up with this for years before she realized that her granddaughters she is raising are the most important thing. She showed my sister some tough love by not allowing her back to the house and I have noticed how much happier she has been.
Keep us posted on this. In the mean time, I want you to know you are in my prayers !
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