Well said M.
My mom is a great woman. But unfortunately, her choice in boyfriends were below par to say the least. As a boy my uncle was the greatest man I knew. I always wondered how come the men my mom chose to bring home wasn't even comparable to my uncle.
None of them worked and would stay up drinking alcohol and fighting with my mom. They were "free loaders" who treated my mom and us kids like crap.
My mom was a beautiful woman with a good heart but for some reason she was attracted to that "bad boy" mentality. She had every quality to attract a good, Christian man who had good morals and a job.
I am sure she felt just like you, SNH. But try to keep a good attitude and hang in there. Ofcourse there are good men out there. You just have to look in the right place. Church would be a good place to start.
The good news, my mom eventually found that "good guy" finally after 6 marriages and numerous boyfriends. She finally found someone who treated her like the lady that she is! They have been happily married for over 25 years.
There's hope for you, SNH!
Post Edited (Cornell) : 10/1/2014 12:27:26 PM (GMT-6)