Sorry you are going through this. I know what a desperate feeling it can be when you want someone to love you as much as you love them. I am by no means a "love expert" but I do have some experience here and would like to offer you some guidance.
1.). If you constantly have to fight for this persons attention or if you feel that you must be constantly checking on him because you don't trust him, chances are- he is not for you anyway! Don't be with someone you can't trust.... You deserve so much better than that!
2). You can't make someone love you! It's sad but true. But what you can do is be yourself 100% and let them see you for what you really are. If both of you fall in love, work hard to build that bond and to keep that 'fire' burning strong.
3). Imagine that your relationship with him is like a "fire". Make sure you are giving the relationship the air it needs to sustain. Let your man know that you trust him and that its okay for him to have friends and his own hobbies. If you're not careful, you can smother the fire and the 'flame' will go out. This works both ways. You also need your space as well.
Remember that trust and respect are the two most important elements in a relationship and if you cannot trust him or he doesn't respect you, then that is not love, my dear. Toss him to the curve.
Wishing you the best of luck with this. Come here anytime to let us know how you're doing!
Post Edited (Cornell) : 10/24/2014 9:58:03 AM (GMT-6)