My mother is a narcissist, she has spread lies about
me and now my family treats me as an out cast and yesterday one of my brothers texted me and said, " I don't know if you care or not but our dad has prostate cancer". I texted my mother and told her that I will keep them in my prayers. That started a huge harassment against me as my mother instead of saying thank you, decided to bring up the past and once again tell me what a horrible daughter I am. I replied that I was hurt that she and my sister had spread lies about
me and that my sister and her daughters were telling people that I'm insane or mentally ill. My mother who is very self centered showed my brother the texts from me, and the he decided to send me nasty texts.
He said things like, " Go live your mentally F..ked up life alone, and leave my mother alone, no one wants to hear from your mental insane brain", and that I should stop spending my husbands money on a shrink.
What I'm asking is, because I removed myself from my very toxic mother, she has smeared me and no one, including nieces and nephews want anything to do with me, my mother and sister and now my brother have ruined my character and painted a horrible picture of me.