Hi Candy and welcome.
I too am sorry to hear of your challenges with finding anxiety relief and the right Rx to help you feel your best.
When you see you doctor tomorrow, I think requesting appointments with two specialists would be in order.
One, have you consulted with a psychiatrist yet? This MD who specializes in mental health and the medications to treat any disorders thereof, will have the best knowledge of how to help you.
Two, a neurologist may be able to shed some light on the head symptoms you are experiencing.
Any doctor can order a Genesight test for you. This is another recommendation I think you should explore since you seem med sensitive. This could help you pinpoint what Rx would be compatible with your needs.
Best wishes, and keep us posted, so we can keep you in support!
"Courage is not the abscence of fear, it is feeling afraid and doing it anyway!"
"Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles...it empties today of its strength."
Corrie Ten Boom
Panic Syndrome recovery due to CBT